PersonalGrowth & SelfEsteem

Whenever you get stuck or cannot progress in whatever you do, ask yourself this question…are you afraid of success or failure?

The answer is…you are afraid of success.
Hmm,  did I write correctly?
You bet.

Most of us are actually afraid of the unknown or the unfamiliarity.
We start to run the internal dialogue of…”what if  this  go wrong or I  never  do  it before or I do not know how to do it.”

Well these are the knowns, right?
Do you follow me?
For example, if you say..” I do not know how to do it”, you are saying that you know that you do not know how to do it.

What if you twist some words and change to ‘I do not know how to do it but I will just do it anyway’?

It means that you are going into the unknown, right?
Somehow as we grow older, we get more foolish or irrational.
When you are a young boy or girl, do you give a hoot about ” I don’t know how to do it?” or do you..” just do it”.
In fact, I am sure you have lots of fun in discovering the unknowns.

So the next time you get stuck, you are actually fearing success, not failure.
The  remedy?

“JUST DO IT!”

The next time you feel that your confidence or self esteem is low, say to yourself ‘cancel,cancel’ and if no one is looking put your two fingers together to make a cancel sign.

Somehow, this magic word will go straight to your sub-conscious mind and will cause you to change your state immediately.

Have an outstanding day!