PersonalGrowth & SelfEsteem

I have added tip#2 and tip #3 at this post.For all subsequent tips on how to manage your men or women, I will just add into this post.

Here is a quick tip to having a great relationship with your women.
Tip#1: Women need a listening ear while men craves for success.
Extremely effective…
When the women is facing a problem, she will talk and talk and talk about it, often adding topics not related. Most men make the mistake of offering some solutions. Guys should just maintain eye contact, nod your head once in awhile and keep quiet. Women need to talk as a means of relieving the stress, that’s all.

For the women, the best tip to handling your man…don’t tell them what to do. Man strive on being successful. Compliment them on their success, no matter how small. And see how they will start doing things for you.

Two opposite worlds call for two opposite actions. Try them.

Tip#2:Ladies, vent off your anger here!
I just came across this site which is awesome for ladies who need to let go off your anger.
It is also a great site for women to chat with each other on almost any topic.
For men, do pass the site to your ladies ( so that you don’t have to always ‘face the music’).
Here’s the site==> http://www.cafemom.com/group/3740

Tip#3: Ladies go ‘merry go round’ while men just say ‘yes or no’.
The same article is found here==>Dr Mel Gill but it is worth repeating here.
If you have seen the cockpit of an aircraft, you would have seen the many knobs, controls or dials that are present. Each must be set to the right setting before the plane can take off or land. That is how a women think or decide. And that is how often women can multi-task or talk about multiple subjects at one go.By now, men, you should get the picture..when the woman is unhappy, they will inject unrelated topics into the conversation.
Now look at your home light switch. It moves in two direction only, up or down.(Err, you don’t have one that moves sideways, do you?). That is how men think.And that is why when we are unhappy, we do not talk so much.